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Writings on Well-Being Dr. Rick Hanson

Talk + Meditation: Using Mindfulness When You’re Triggered

Talk + Meditation: Using Mindfulness When You’re Triggered

What should we do when we get triggered — especially by other people? When we get “plugged in” — suddenly reactive, upset, or overwhelmed — it can feel like something has gone wrong inside us or between us and others. The good news is that we can be skillful with...

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Stay Right When You’re Wronged

Stay Right When You’re Wronged

Blasting another person with anger is like throwing hot coals with bare hands: both people get burned. Speak calmly and from your heart, even when wronged.

Rest

Rest

Encourage your mind to come to rest at least occasionally. Tell the truth to yourself about how much time you actually – other than sleep.

Be the Body

Be the Body

The fabric of your mind is woven by your body. Focus on what others communicate, and try to receive that as a valuable offering. Open your mind to the good that is implicit or down deep in the other person.

See Your Part

See Your Part

Acknowledging one’s own part in a difficult situation is one of the hardest – and I think most honorable – things a person can do.

Relax, You’ve Arrived

Relax, You’ve Arrived

Part of this comes from our biological nature. To survive, animals – including us – have to be goal-directed, leaning into the future. This focus – can get confused and stressful.

Remember the Big Things

Remember the Big Things

In every life, reminders arrive about what’s really important. While it’s good advice not to sweat the small stuff, we also need to nurture the large stuff.