by Rick Hanson | Jul 23, 2024 | Acting Skillfully, Blog, Just One Thing
What can you do when you’re shaken? Find your ground. It’s clear that we all need a place to stand. A physical place to be sure – hearth and home, land and sea, a bed to curl up in – but also psychological or spiritual places, such as feeling loved, a calm clear center inside
by Rick Hanson | Jul 16, 2024 | Blog, Just One Thing, Leave the Red Zone
It is important to feel good as often as possible, at least several times a day. Stop the urgency of the day and let quiet fill the air, let thoughts slow down. There is presence in this moment, and no worries about the future.
by Rick Hanson | Jul 9, 2024 | Blog, Interpersonal Skills, Just One Thing
Forgiveness frees you from the tangles of anger and retribution. Appreciate the value of forgiveness. Ask yourself: what does my grievance, my resentment, cost me? Cost others I care about? What would it be like to lay those burdens down?
by Rick Hanson | Jun 25, 2024 | Blog, Just One Thing, Leave the Red Zone
If you can’t say “no” – to others, and yourself – then your “yesses” will lose their meaning and power. The “freedom not to” gives you a feeling of ease.
by Rick Hanson | Jun 18, 2024 | At Home in Your Body, Blog, Just One Thing
When you open to the whole of your experience you feel more at home in yourself. With moments of practice that add up over time, you feel more like a whole person, less fragmented. As this happens, you feel more fed and fulfilled – and more connected, more entwined with the world as whole.
by Rick Hanson | Jun 11, 2024 | Acting Skillfully, Blog, Just One Thing
Enjoy healthy self-control, a centered enjoyment of life, and inner freedom. Think of sobriety in terms of the big picture, and in the context of a life well-lived. Sobriety is a gain – of health, self-respect, unclouded mind, peace with others and bliss.
by Rick Hanson | Jun 4, 2024 | Being at Peace, Blog, Just One Thing
“Peace” can sound sentimental or clichéd but it’s what most of us long for. When you experience peace, enjoy it, let it sink into you, weaving its way into your brain so it increasingly becomes the habit of your mind.
by Rick Hanson | May 28, 2024 | Blog, Just One Thing
Conflicts with others are a normal part of life. But if we do this while swept away by anger, that’s not good for us or others.
by Rick Hanson | May 21, 2024 | Blog, Foundations of Relationships, Just One Thing
Love is like air. It may be hard to see – but it’s in you and all around you.
by Rick Hanson | May 14, 2024 | Being a Friend to Yourself, Blog, Just One Thing
See what happens when you bet on yourself, when you back your own play. See what happens when you let yourself fall backward into your own arms, trusting that they will catch you.
by Rick Hanson | May 7, 2024 | Blog, Just One Thing, The Wider World
What do a healthy relationship, family, organization, or country have in common? They are grounded in what is real. They seek the truth, tell the truth, and learn from the truth.
by Rick Hanson | Apr 23, 2024 | Blog, Just One Thing, The Wider World
Humanity has great power for good and ill. As the earth heats up, as species go extinct and resources decline, it is critically important that a fourth major motivation guide our thoughts, words, and above all, deeds: Love the world.
by Rick Hanson | Apr 16, 2024 | Blog, Green Zone Brain, Just One Thing
What’s your “Vitamin C?” “Vitamin C” is. Daily life is full of opportunities to notice or create experiences of inner strength, a psychological resource. Take it into yourself, making it a part of you.
by Rick Hanson | Apr 9, 2024 | Blog, Just One Thing, The Wider World
What do you do when the bottom falls out? Take heart. By “taking heart,” I mean several related things: Sensing your heart and chest, finding encouragement in what is good both around you and inside you, resting in your own warmth, compassion, and
by Rick Hanson | Apr 2, 2024 | Blog, Just One Thing, Lived by Good Purpose
By taking care of the basics, everything else usually takes care of itself.
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