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Writings on Well-Being Dr. Rick Hanson

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See the Big Picture

See the Big Picture

The tree or the forest? See the big picture. The vast majority of human acts each day are constructive: making meals, tending to children, saying hello, restraining anger, completing tasks, planting seeds, teaching, healing, nurturing, cooperating

Don’t Beat Yourself Up

Don’t Beat Yourself Up

Try to understand what causes you to feel fault, resolve it and move on. Inner criticism tears you down. Commit to skillful corrections. Take a big breath and very deliberately name to yourself three strengths or virtues you have and let them sink in.

Be Benevolent

Be Benevolent

Liking feels good, it encourages us to approach and engage the world. Know what benevolence feels like in your body, heart, and mind, and realize that it is natural and normal. Appreciate some of the benevolence that buoys you along. Most people are fair-minded, empathic, cooperative, compassionate, and kind: in a word, benevolent.

See the Good in Others

See the Good in Others

See the good in others—it’s a simple but very powerful way to feel happier and more confident and become more loving.

Tune Into Others

Tune Into Others

Imagine being aware of the surface behavior of the people around you but oblivious to their inner life while they remain unmoved by your own.

Water Your Fruit Tree

Water Your Fruit Tree

Nourish the things that nourish you. Try to do one thing each day to. “Pass forward” a gift to the person you will be tomorrow . . . and a year from now.

See the Person Behind the Eyes

See the Person Behind the Eyes

Everyone longs to be seen, known, to have our hopes and fears acknowledged. Can you see behind the mask a person wears?

Speak From The Heart

Speak From The Heart

Speaking from an open heart can seem so vulnerable yet be the strongest move of all. Naming the truth has great moral force.