In this episode of the Being Well Podcast, Forrest is joined by psychiatrist Dr. Blaise Aguirre to discuss Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT). They explore how extreme emotional sensitivity can lead to despair, self-hatred, suicidality, and an intense fear of abandonment, and how DBT can teach the skills needed to regulate those feelings. They discuss the nature of self-hatred, how to change the stories you’ve told about yourself, and how their insight and empathy can make people with BPD some of his favorite clients to work with.
About our Guest: Dr. Blaise Aguirre is the medical director of 3East at McLean Hospital, a residential DBT program for adolescents and young adults, and is an assistant professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. He’s also the co-author of a number of books including DBT for Dummies, and the author of I Hate Myself: Overcome Self-Loathing and Realize Why You’re Wrong About You.
Key Topics
- 0:00: Introduction
- 4:05: Common features of BPD
- 15:16: Skill-building versus narrative work in therapy
- 22:10: What DBT looks like in practice
- 27:02: DBT skills: mindfulness, dialectic thinking, and opposite action
- 33:43: How to shift self-hatred
- 49:22: Stigmatization of BPD
- 53:25: BPD versus CPTSD
- 58:52: Recap
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