In this episode of the Being Well Podcast, Dr. Rick and Forrest answer listener questions about the freeze state, ADHD, and power imbalances in relationships. First, they talk about how to deal with feelings of shame associated with the freeze state, emphasizing how we can “be with” in order to “work with.” Then they tackle a tricky question about how psychoeducation can complicate relationships. Next up, they discuss whether rates of ADHD have actually increased, and the differences between “real” ADHD vs. symptoms of screen addiction. Finally, they talk about how to think about the right fit with a therapist.
Key Topics
- 0:00: Introduction
- 1:17: Question 1: Shame and the freeze state
- 19:12: Question 2: “My partner’s lack of psychoeducation is frustrating me!”
- 33:56: Question 3: “Why does everyone have ADHD?”
- 46:21: Question 4: “What’s the right amount of directness in therapy?”
- 56:01: Recap
Forrest is now writing on Substack, check out his work there.
