pixel
Being Well Podcast: Limerence, Love, and Life Transitions: January Mailbag
January 13, 2025

In this episode of the Being Well Podcast, Dr. Rick and Forrest begin the mailbag by exploring limerence – an obsessive form of romantic attraction – and offer practical recommendations for working with one-sided infatuation. They then discuss what to do when romantic vulnerability feels unsafe, and how we can rebuild trust in others after traumatic experiences. The episode also tackles managing career transitions, dealing with social anxiety around positive interactions, and maintaining boundaries without being consumed by anger.

Key Topics:

  • 0:00: Introduction
  • 0:50: What can I do when I experience limerence, or compulsive romantic attraction?
  • 18:00: How can I learn to trust my partner and embrace the experience of happiness in my relationship?
  • 26:50: How can I best think about the inherent uncertainty in the 2-3 years of preparation for a new career path?
  • 37:55: How can I learn to “take in the good” when good experiences feel uncomfortable for me?
  • 44:55: How can I maintain important boundaries in a way that doesn’t lead to me feeling too much anger?
  • 56:40: Recap

Forrest is now writing on Substack, check out his work there.

Share this episode on:

Support the Podcast

Special Offers from Our Sponsors

SQUARESPACE

Finally get that project off the ground with Squarespace! Head to squarespace.com/beingwell for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch use coupon code BEINGWELL to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain.

CALM

Want to sleep better? Try the Calm app! 

Visit calm.com/beingwell for 40% off a premium subscription.

Join Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson every week on the Being Well Podcast for lively and thought-provoking conversation and practical tips for being happier, building inner strengths, and getting the most out of life.

The Foundations of Well-Being - Resilience Courses and Emotional Intelligence Courses

A Year-Long Course in Changing Your Brain - and Life - for the Better

Starting January 4, grow 12 strengths for staying calm, joyful, and confident no matter what challenges life throws your way.

Get Rick’s Free Weekly Newsletter

Get a weekly practice and the latest Being Well Podcast delivered right to your inbox.

Name
This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.

Ask Rick and Forrest a Question!

"*" indicates required fields

This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.

Recent Episodes